#personal-growth #rationality Created at 2023-01-06 # [Anonymous feedback](https://www.admonymous.co/louis030195) # [[Epistemic status]] #shower-thought Last modified date: 2023-01-06 Commit: 0 # Related - [[Hurt]] - [[Emotion]] # TODO > [!TODO] TODO # Negativity >One of my Georgetown University students, a guy named TJ, who worked as an assistant controller at the Washington Redskins, put that lesson to work while he was taking my negotiations class. >~[[Chris Voss - Never Split the Difference Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It|Chris Voss]] ![hygge, lagom, lykke, multiexposure photography expressionism ](https://lexica-serve-encoded-images.sharif.workers.dev/md/04eb2772-0eb9-4f42-b1d2-4bc1e8dc5ec4) >Your moments of blackest despair are really your most honest moments; your most lucid moments. That’s when you’re seeing without your protective lenses. That’s when you pull back the curtain and see things as they are. >~ [[Jed McKenna]] ![photo of the inside of a dark old rainy bedroom window at night with the curtains pulled back, dimly lit creepy | screaming face of donald trump staring in and pressing his bloody face and hands against the window, horror, scary face, demonic face, ](https://lexica-serve-encoded-images.sharif.workers.dev/md/05523ab5-6725-4628-99bb-4704da23d768)