Your friend, family, partner, environment, expect that you behave like x or y, that you react to z, w with q or r
your environment expects you to output x or y and to input w or k
you are a cog in the machine
you run on a treadmill on which you cannot control the speed
you are passenger in a car you can just intermittently switch to driver seat
it's a constant fight to control where the boat is going
how fast it's going
Travelling is an opportunity to release yourself of many, if not most, expectations
you are again in a new environment, an unknown, you don't have to reciprocate anything
again you can steer the boat
Another way to break free from expectations is to become a monk. Or go to the forest alone.
You can also announce publicly where your boat is going and that it will be the only boat on this sea
#humans #relationships #personal-growth