#humans #relationships Created at 2023-01-18 # [Anonymous feedback](https://www.admonymous.co/louis030195) # [[Epistemic status]] #shower-thought Last modified date: 2023-01-18 Commit: 0 # Related # TODO > [!TODO] TODO # Hosting parties ![A painting of mystical cocktails trending on artstation in the style of Greg Rutkowski](https://lexica-serve-encoded-images.sharif.workers.dev/md/031778bb-6737-4dbb-a646-fc05c6a77b61) ## Who ### New whos - LinkedIn - Core group friends - One time met people > Make a list of “super connectors” in your town and invite one or two. This could include real estate agents, salespeople, fundraising staff at a nonprofit, and recruiters. These folks have huge networks and are often receptive to invitations to meet new people. ### Diversity is the dark matter of parties ![a parrot eating a cute amanita muscaria, weed, lsd, beautiful glowing lights, sci - fi, stunning, intricate, elegant. highly detailed, digital painting. artstation. smooth. sharp focus. illustration. art by artgerm and greg rutkowski and alphonse mucha ](https://lexica-serve-encoded-images.sharif.workers.dev/md/02b66f7a-88ee-471d-a6b1-128528e3ae93) A party is like a garden. If you only plant one type of flower, your garden will be monotonous and lack vibrancy. However, if you plant different types of flowers, your garden will be full of color, texture, and life. The same concept applies to your guest list. If you only invite people who are like yourself, the party will be dull and lack character. However, if you diversify your guest list, the party will be lively and full of interesting perspectives. ![various kinds of separate yellow flower petals, botanical illustration, white background, 8 k ](https://lexica-serve-encoded-images.sharif.workers.dev/md/04215d0a-5528-495e-81b8-87a373f040b5)