### 080925 Deep Friend Prompts — 2025 Mode - **Use**: pick 5–8 prompts; 2m silent jot, 7m share, 3m follow-ups; trade a 5% reveal each round. ### openers (warm up speed) - What’s a belief you hold that most people around you don’t share? ![[f6b37f34-b294-4ee4-8132-9598693213da.wav]] - As a human, what’s your system prompt? ![[a5d35003-c8b2-488a-a1b4-48d677a37f03.wav]] - What did you read lately that changed your mind? ![[7b47beb5-5544-468d-90f5-227762d28665.wav]] - If a genie guaranteed your next 5-year bet works out (but is hard), what would you commit to? ![[7d536935-fa8e-4d12-acff-05403ee995fe.wav]] ### origin & antifragility - What adversity most shaped your default reactions today? - What did it teach you about responsibility and where did it warp you? - Which habit protects you but also limits you? ### judgment & truth-seeking - What’s a decision rule you actually use under stress? - Where are you currently lying to yourself, and how would you falsify it? - What’s a lesson you had to unlearn to get unstuck? ### time & tradeoffs - What are you optimizing for this decade? ![[a58a1ead-4727-43a6-a229-cbc8f5d3acdc.wav]] - What are you willing to suffer for? What pain is not worth any upside? ![[9951e223-bc76-4bf9-b8b9-de9818fa83de.wav]] - If you had 20 minutes weekly to improve your life the most, what would you do? ### love, attachment, repair - When do you feel safest in a relationship? When do you protest or withdraw? - How do you repair after conflict, concretely? - What’s a way you express love that others find unusual but works for you? ![[5ca46599-ce05-4ffb-b2c8-32c2aa208433.wav]] ### work, wealth, ambition - What game are you actually playing, and what score do you track? ![[c81637d5-a828-41c8-a359-c88a5bee3d7b.wav]] - Which constraint you refuse to accept on principle? - What “force multiplier” would change your trajectory fastest? ### body, energy, health - What prevents you from waking up at 10/10 energy? - Which single habit bought you the biggest ROI? - What would you stop if no one expected it of you? ### ethics & courage - Where are you avoiding a necessary conversation? - What would you do if failure had no social penalty? - What value do you refuse to trade, even at a high price? ### spirituality & meaning - What ritual reliably makes you kinder or more truthful? - What moment recently felt sacred (even if you don’t use that word)? ![[dd6d2e66-eb30-4271-8578-642476bca205.wav]] - If you could delete one thing from your inner world, what would it be? ### mortality & regret - If life stayed as-is for 3 years, what would you regret not changing? - What would your older self beg you to start this month? - What are you holding on to that you need to let go of this year? ### relationships & tribe - Who makes you most alive, and why aren’t you with them more? ![[4908f0d0-8f88-4e5d-a86d-87b757d960ca.wav]] - What social norm do you quietly disagree with and live differently? - What kind of friend do you want to be, specifically? ### play & aliveness - What does a perfect day look like that you rarely allow yourself? - What’s a “nonlinear” activity you want to expose yourself to more? - What’s a risk you’re glad you didn’t take? One you wish you had? ### meta - What question should I have asked you? - What’s a question you wish people asked you lately? Tags: #human-prompt #prompts