#sustainability #trust #empathy #compound-interest #mental-model #relationships Created at 210323 # [Anonymous feedback](https://www.admonymous.co/louis030195) # [[Epistemic status]] #shower-thought Last modified date: 210323 Commit: 0 # Related - [[Philosophy/Humans/Symbiotic relationship]] - [[Philosophy/Humans/Compound relationship]] - [[Philosophy/Humans/Relationship pruning]] - [[Business/Entrepreneurship/Knowing people for long does not necessarily imply relationship antifragility]] - [[Philosophy/Humans/Exploration vs exploitation - Relationships]] - [[Philosophy/Humans/Sprint relationships]] # TODO > [!TODO] TODO # Sustainability >The single most important principle in biology is sustainability. In fact, it’s so important, that it means everything. Nothing matters if you can’t pass the test of time. >When human relationships are sustainable not only do they survive, they compound. >~ [[fs.blog - Second-Order Thinking What Smart People Use to Outperform - Farnam Street|fs.blog]] Water evaporates from bodies of water and land surfaces, forms clouds, falls back down as precipitation, and ultimately flows back to bodies of water or sinks into the ground to recharge aquifers. Similarly, sustainable human relationships involve a continuous cycle of giving and receiving, supporting and being supported, communicating and understanding. Just like water, this cycle may encounter obstacles or interruptions, but if the relationship is built on a foundation of mutual respect, trust, and empathy, it can withstand challenges and grow stronger over time. However, if the cycle is disrupted or broken, the relationship may become unsustainable or even toxic, leading to negative consequences for both parties involved. Thus, the mental model of sustainability highlights the importance of nurturing and maintaining healthy human relationships, just as we must protect and preserve our natural resources. Just like the compounding effect of interest on investments, [[Compound relationship|sustainable relationships also compound over time]]. When we invest time and effort into nurturing our relationships, the benefits multiply over time. As the cycle of giving and receiving continues, the trust and empathy between individuals increase, leading to deeper connections and more fulfilling experiences together. This compounding effect can also spread to other areas of our lives, enhancing our overall well-being and happiness. However, just as with investments, neglecting sustainable practices can lead to negative consequences. If we fail to prioritize our relationships or engage in behaviors that undermine them, the compounding effect can work against us. Negative experiences or actions can leave lasting scars and damage the trust and empathy necessary for sustainable relationships. Thus, the mental model of compound relationships serves as a reminder to invest regularly in our relationships and nurture them with care. By doing so, we can reap the rewards of deep, meaningful connections that enhance our lives and help us achieve our goals, both individually and as a society. ![[The Roots and Fruits of Harmonious Bonds]]