### Self-Care Assessment Worksheet This assessment tool provides an overview of effective strategies to maintain self-care. After completing the full assessment, choose one item from each area that you will actively work to improve. Using the scale below, rate the following areas in terms of frequency: - **5 = Frequently** - **4 = Occasionally** - **3 = Rarely** - **2 = Never** - **1 = It never occurred to me** Date: #### Physical Self-Care | Activity | Rating | | ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | ------ | | Eat regularly (e.g. breakfast, lunch, and dinner) | ___ | | Eat healthy | ___ | | Exercise | ___ | | Get regular medical care for prevention | ___ | | Get medical care when needed | ___ | | Take time off when needed | ___ | | Get massages | ___ | | Dance, swim, walk, run, play sports, sing, or do some other physical activity that is fun | ___ | | Take time to be sexual—with yourself, with a partner | ___ | | Get enough sleep | ___ | | Wear clothes you like | ___ | | Take vacations | ___ | | Take day trips or mini-vacations | ___ | | Make time away from telephones | ___ | | Other | ___ | #### Psychological Self-Care | Activity | Rating | |----------|--------| | Make time for self-reflection | ___ | | Have your own personal psychotherapy | ___ | | Write in a journal | ___ | | Read literature that is unrelated to work | ___ | | Do something at which you are not expert or in charge | ___ | | Decrease stress in your life | ___ | | Let others know different aspects of you | ___ | | Notice your inner experience—listen to your thoughts, judgments, beliefs, attitudes, and feelings | ___ | | Engage your intelligence in a new area, e.g. go to an art museum, history exhibit, sports event, auction, theater performance | ___ | | Practice receiving from others | ___ | | Be curious | ___ | | Say “no” to extra responsibilities sometimes | ___ | | Other | ___ | #### Emotional Self-Care | Activity | Rating | |----------|--------| | Spend time with others whose company you enjoy | ___ | | Stay in contact with important people in your life | ___ | | Give yourself affirmations, praise yourself | ___ | | Love yourself | ___ | | Re-read favorite books, re-view favorite movies | ___ | | Identify comforting activities, objects, people, relationships, places and seek them out | ___ | | Allow yourself to cry | ___ | | Find things that make you laugh | ___ | | Express your outrage in social action, letters and donations, marches, protests | ___ | | Play with children | ___ | | Other | ___ | #### Spiritual Self-Care | Activity | Rating | |----------|--------| | Make time for reflection | ___ | | Spend time with nature | ___ | | Find a spiritual connection or community | ___ | | Be open to inspiration | ___ | | Cherish your optimism and hope | ___ | | Be aware of nonmaterial aspects of life | ___ | | Try at times not to be in charge or the expert | ___ | | Be open to not knowing | ___ | | Identify what is meaningful to you and notice its place in your life | ___ | | Meditate | ___ | | Pray | ___ | | Sing | ___ | | Spend time with children | ___ | | Have experiences of awe | ___ | | Contribute to causes in which you believe | ___ | | Read inspirational literature (talks, music, etc.) | ___ | | Other | ___ | #### Workplace or Professional Self-Care | Activity | Rating | |----------|--------| | Take a break during the workday (e.g. lunch) | ___ | | Take time to chat with co-workers | ___ | | Make quiet time to complete tasks | ___ | | Identify projects or tasks that are exciting and rewarding | ___ | | Set limits with your clients and colleagues | ___ | | Balance your caseload so that no one day or part of a day is “too much” | ___ | | Arrange your work space so it is comfortable and comforting | ___ | | Get regular supervision or consultation | ___ | | Negotiate for your needs (benefits, pay raise) | ___ | | Have a peer support group | ___ | | Develop a non-trauma area of professional interest | ___ | | Other | ___ | #### Balance | Activity | Rating | |----------|--------| | Strive for balance within your work-life and workday | ___ | | Strive for balance among work, family, relationships, play, and rest | ___ | **Source:** Transforming the Pain: A Workbook on Vicarious Traumatization. Saakvitne, Pearlman & Staff of TSI/CAAP (Norton, 1996) ### Looking forward Now that you discovered your weak points, list here the 3 most important ones you could work on: 1. 2. 3. #### Goal setting What are your 2 goals for next month to improve these points? For example: - "write in a journal" -> your goal can be to write in a journal 5 min a day right upon waking up. to make it easy put a journal and pen next to your bed - "exercise" -> your goal can be to run once a week. set in your calendar "running", every monday morning. on sunday night always put your running clothes and shoes next to your bed You goals: -